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Saturday, January 15, 2011

Single liFe bettEr or NoT???(^_^)

There are some people, if you are honest, that are better off single. You may be one of them. If you keep finding yourself single and you are actually happier when you are on your own then when you are in a relationship, you may be a better single person than a person in a relationship. If you take an honest look at your life you may find that the single life really does suit you better.

You are probably better off single if you are independent. If you like to do your own thing and you don’t want to answer to anyone. It’s okay to be independent, but if you don’t want to have to be accountable to anyone and you don’t want to have to worry about what someone else wants or needs from you, the single life will suit you much better.

You are better off being single if you are materialistic. Some people love material things…a lot. There is nothing wrong with this if you are honest about it. If you are a very materialistic person and you like things more than you like people, you need to consider being single and just dating people. If material things are important to you, accept it, admit it, and embrace it but don’t try to hold down a relationship.

You are probably better off single if you haven’t recovered from a past relationship. The worst thing you can do when you haven’t recovered from a past relationship is to jump into a new one. You need to give yourself time to heal. If you jump into a relationship now you are going to be doing it with all of your heart and soul. You owe it to yourself as well as to the people that you will date to be all in.

You are better off being single if you don’t like commitment. When you are in a relationship the other person is going to expect you to be committed to them and to your relationship. If you don’t want to be committed to a relationship you are better off being on your own or dating very casually. If you do date you should be honest about your inability or dislike of commitment so the person does not get the wrong idea about what you want from the date.

As you can see, some people are just better off single. There is nothing to be ashamed of, not everyone is built to be in a relationship and other people simply are not ready. You cannot force the issue, if you are better off being single you should embrace the single life and enjoy it. There are definitely benefits to being single, so if that what works for you right now, enjoy it!